I am alone... no one here for me

What do you do when someone you love wants you closer? Well if you are unhappy with where you are it should be obvious to go there so that you can both be happy. But what if... there are two people who want you closer? You like one place more than the other but one place holds the love of your life...the place you don't like as much.
What if you pick to be with your bestfriend at a college that holds more opportunity and chances to develop more on your own, but in payment...you lose Him. the one you want more than anything?
Then vice versa... You go to his school and you are with him and together, but your friend feels hurt you didn't pick her (she has been around 8 years where he has been around 1.7) and you are happy with him...but you lose out on some really good college experiences?
What is worth more... a good resume or a good relationship...
Let's add more into the mix. Say you have to choose with in the next few months. Your friend wants you there he wants you with him... You already know that if you pick your friends college you will be happier in the area, but that if you go to there you most likely won't last with him... But at least you will have your friend, your great college experience and all that...
Say you pick him... The college isn't as good, doesn't hold as much in the market as going to a different school does. You are with him and that is great. But then you break up and you deeply regret wasting your college life on being at a school that wasn't as good as you could have been at.
What do you do... OF course there is the option you stay together with said love...and grow old and happily in love together. But money wise and job wise it doesn't work out as well... There is so much and no one knows the future.

How am i supposed to make this choice. I am so sick of mizzou... I am not happy with the experience... So I have been thinking about moving to ucm or to missouri state... Ucm hold bennie and ms holds erin... I think that if i move to erin's school over all I would be happier but if i lost bennie it would crush me.
If i am with bennie...and I still lose him I will have NOTHING to show for it but going with erin i would...
So what do i do?
Just stay where I am? Halfway to miserable and happy... Just stuck in the middle?
I hate not knowing what to do...